I am back...

[xp_dust]

Hey everyone,

I am back from Attilan. After ending up in some trouble, the teachers there and I decided it would be safer for me to come back here. And before anyone asks… some former friend decided he wanted to marry me and some other former friends decided to help him to the point of kidnapping me and attacking me in my room at the school in Attilan…
  
I looked around the journals and saw that we have a some new faces since I was here for the last time. I am Sooraya Qadir. I am originally from Afghanistan until a good man saved me from my owner and brought me to the States in 2006. Since then I have studied here and in Attilan, with about a year’s break to spend time with my mother, who still is in Afghanistan. I look forward to getting to know all of you.  You can recognize me from the headscarf, unless there is another Muslim girl around… ;))

I hope to finish my last two high school courses here and to go to college in September 2012. Not sure yet what I want to study, but I still have time to figure that one out.

Before I forget, Leyu told me to say hi to everyone on her behalf.

Comments

[x-dust.livejournal.com]

In Islam a girl has a wali, a kind of guardian who helps her with marriage, and usually this is her father or another male relative. If you are an orphan or don't have any other family, usually a high Muslim offical will take on that role. He can arrange a marriage for her. And Sayyid cast himself into that role. Some details of how this works vary through the different schools of thought though.

What he forgot, is that a girl has to consent first. I definately didn't consent.

[x-korvus.livejournal.com]

I do not approve of marriage for any reason but love, personally. In this case I only fear the response to injustice being itself unjust and perpetuating the cycle. I am very sorry for what happened; I have myself been abducted for a time. It is certainly terrible.

[x-dust.livejournal.com]

Thank you, you are very kind.

I don't mind the idea of wali very much. I like the idea of someone who I can rely on with more experience on those matters then I have. But I do want the right to say yes or no...

[x-korvus.livejournal.com]

Certainly not an unreasonable desire.